Creating a permission manifesto for happiness! Who decides whether or not we are happy? Who decides whether or not we feel at peace with ourselves? Who decides whether or not we see ourselves as successful contributors in this world?
The answer, for each of us, to all of the above questions, is: I DO.
We are each responsible for our own happiness, peace of mind and success. It is when we refuse to take responsibility for our happiness, peace of mind and success, we suffer emotionally, physically and spiritually.
Most people, rather than take responsibility for their life, choose to blame. They blame other people and circumstances for their unhappiness, stress and so-called failures.
Let’s face it: it’s easier to point fingers than it is to take responsibility for where we are today and where we’d like to be tomorrow.
The truth is that life happens. It is part of the human experience. It’s what we all signed up for.
The challenge most of us face is that we are trained and conditioned to focus on what’s wrong with our lives rather than what could be. As children, we hear adults whining and complaining about how bad things are, what’s wrong with other people, and how life is one struggle after another.
Bad attitudes and negative mindsets are contagious. However, the good news is that good attitudes and positive mindsets are also contagious.
There is only one thing we each can do to change our attitude and mindset: create what we call a Permission Manifesto. A manifesto is a declaration. When we declare anything, we put it into motion and our lives begin to change.
Experiencing happiness, peace, and success will elude us until we become mentally and emotionally okay with feeling happier, more peaceful, and successful.
A permission manifesto is like your own personal decree; like your very own Declaration of Independence. And what are you declaring your independence from: feeling down, being stressed and anxious, the past with all of its’ regrets and resentments?
A permission manifesto is a starting point where we all begin to live our lives on our own terms. It is where we give ourselves permission to develop the qualities within us that will allow us to shine, express our talents and gifts, and live our lives with greater zest and vitality.
Happiness is a decision, and we are each one decision away from experiencing it.
By giving yourself permission to experience happiness, inner peace and success, you can change your genetic makeup and DNA. Don’t take our word for it: scientists are now identifying this as verifiable fact through epigenetics.
A permission manifesto will make you feel better, look better, do more with less effort, and create an all-around positive vibe for you.
Creating a permission manifesto is easy. All that is required is deciding how you want your life to be, how you want to feel most of the time, and then allowing yourself to experience what it is you desire.
To get you started, here are some generic permission manifesto statements that you may desire to experience in your life. You can also begin each statement with: Now that I’m grown up…
I now give myself permission to be happier.
I now give myself permission to experience success on my own terms.
I now give myself permission to experience healthier and more loving relationships.
I now give myself permission to do what I love and love what I do.
I now give myself permission to speak my truth as long as it comes from kindness.
I now give myself permission to experience more inner peace, calmness, and serenity.
I now give myself permission to be healthier and make better choices for my physical and emotional well-being.
I now give myself permission to thrive and prosper in all areas of my life.
These are just a few examples you can include in your personalized permission manifesto. We challenge you to create your own permission manifesto. Read it daily. Print it out and place it strategically around your home: on a bathroom mirror or the refrigerator door.
Share your permission manifesto with a friend, a mentor or someone who is uplifting and encouraging. Share it with the two of us! We’d love to hear from you! We can assist you to create your very own personal Happiness Manifesto. Contact us for an introductory coaching session.
Jon Satin and Chris Pattay – The Possibility Coaches
©Possibility Coaches LLC
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